Ok, you don’t want me to quote you for some reason, so I’ll have to address it as a whole only.
People always leave communities over time for one reason or another, I’ve not seen any particular reason to think that this scenario is any different to what I have seen previously in the history of DG, the biggest issue here is momentum, only because somehow I have been unable to remove the dependence on me to drive things forward. People will disagree, fundamentally it is impossible to remove that, and the server should ideally weed out people who were not intended to be here as quickly as possible, so that those that remain can better focus on the issues that are important.
If you are talking about a few rules needing to be removed, reworked or replaced, due to being too hard to enforce, too strict or otherwise not having the intended effect, then that is different, but the way you are wording it is that you fundamentally disagree with how the rules are as a whole, including the enforcement of them. Those are different levels of change, and only one of those is my goal.
On appointing few mods. The people who are applying do not fundamentally stand out, even other staff are finding it hard to champion any particular person. The choice is either to take the hit on quality and allow people who were previously under the required level or it is keeping firm and instead trying best to inspire and drive those that are capable towards being ready. Taking on a new staff member is a massive task, because you are trusting them with the ability to decide who gets to play and what they get to do, and you hope that they do so only in the way intended. A rogue staff member can very well cause problems for the server if they decide to ban everyone they see whilst other staff are not around.
You single out one person for some reason to be Moderator, but regardless, that does not mean they are suited to be one. Unfortunately, we have not yet worked out a proper process for other staff to be involved in this (clearly since I am still the only person who has been replying to apps, despite inviting four other staff since modappreviewers was created), so those that I gave the ability to take over responsibility here have not been able to do to so properly, whether that is because no one who has applied has shown that they have what it takes or because it’s unclear as to what action needs to be taken when no one is actually sure. I place no blame on anyone in particular, this way of working is new and came about late into my time being taken.
No updates? Well, then help me understand what you expect. Give examples of what you would have liked to have seen over the last month that did not happen. I’ve already said that when notable changes occur, I voice them, and that other things are left unsaid either because there is no news on those things or because the changes are so little that it is not worth talking about.
And if you believe I have a reluctance to understand people’s frustrations, then why do you think this thread exists? This was made so people can voice those. You cannot expect me to agree and say yes to everything, but I can at least take the time to respond and properly bring out what people actually think. Even now, only a few people have responded and it seems very much so like the only people who are going to voice their opinion are the minority of people, effectively the loudest people rather than those most representative, but this is a task that is impossible afaik to solve because this is how all communities work.
Lack and ignorance for community management. You need to elaborate on this. From what I can glean from the thread so far, the issue is not necessarily ignorance nor lack of community management, but a disagreement about what the server is and is not and the lack of momentum to drive forward progress on changes that are agreed on, because fundamentally a time constraint requires prioritisation and that often means keeping the server running and working rather than changing wording of some rules. Unfortunately, a lot of people seem to prefer to complain on discord or in-game, where their messages are inevitably either not seen by the people who can do something about it or are forgotten due to all the other things that get talked about.
Why are you name dropping Tru3thful? As far as I am aware, they have not requested any such freedom nor power, neither the desire to take on any. I have and do ask all staff whether they want to take on something, whatever that something may be at that particular time.
On the rules again, reading between the lines here and ignoring discord rules because I’ve stated twice that I did not write those and have asked multiple times for someone to do it because I don’t focus my attention there, it seems like people have only mentioned two rules, but in spite of that they do not mention the specific rules and instead generalise their position, which only makes it more confusing for me. If you have specific rules in mind, then you say that instead of saying that the “rules” are wrong.
Because, fundamentally I can not conceed on removing the core of DG, because that is essentially me and my ideals, and that is what decides in what direction the rules are written towards. If I left, DG would quickly fall apart and die, because I don’t think anyone here is of the realisation of just how much you need to take on. I have in the past stayed up until 3am and then slept for 3 hours to then get back on, just to solve one issue on the server. Who is really willing to conceed their time, even when they do not feel up to it? I have tried, for my sake, giving out permissions and powers to others to take over the parts that I do not have the time for, but so far no one has been able to take a significant portion, most likely because they require programming and technical expertise. Just posting words in a topic is not enough. We need either need someone or a group of people that ultimately amount to the same dedication to being able to continue, despite the constant workload and inevitable negative nature of being in a position like this, and that they maintain focus on people who are genuinely are up to doing the thankless work, and are capable of continuing in spite of everything. It’s all easy to talk and say people should do something, but to put in the work is on a different level of dedication and it takes its toll on everyone, and I am genuinely thankful to those that lasted as long as they did, and to those that keep going despite it seeming like a never-ending stream of work.