Gotcha, gotcha, that’s fair. I end up missing a lot of those so at least from me they end up going unpunished a lot of the time. Especially if they’re not reported.
All I can suggest is to control yourself for the future. Other players breaking the rules doesn’t mean it’s fine to do it yourself.
I guess consider the ban your 3rd warning, especially now that we got to have a direct talk about it. If you’re willing to change, sure, we can move on.
Can you read the rules and quote the rule(s) you broke? Do this in a new reply, don’t edit your appeal. If you do not know how to quote the rules, read the guide How to quote the rules.
If you do not identify the right rule(s) that you broke or you do not know which ones you broke, I can make it clear.